Do you know what constitutes a real change in life? Nowadays people think that a big change is when you move to another country or get a job in a new city. True, that is change but I wouldn't actually call it big change.
The answer: Big Events
For example, a friend not inviting you to a wedding is not a big moment. A friend deleting you from your FB account is not a big moment.
Big moments:
1.) Moving in with your girlfriend.
2.) Getting engaged.
3.) Getting married.
4.) Near death experience.
5.) In major debts
Why do I consider them real changes?
Its actually quite simple, we actually change as people.
When someone tells you they had an epiphany realizing who they are, it is because of these top five events.
Given the fact that there are other things that can be added to this list.
I have lost, loved, destroyed, or gained new friends.
But I have transitioned through too many phases in my life.
I have none but one regret, to say sorry to the people who left before I had the chance, and none other.
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